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THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE THE MARRIAGE



It is not easy to plan for a marriage right? You need to do a lot of consultations. It is already given that before marriage we have to be prepared. That is why, we need months or even year/s of planning and it is not easy specially when we are working at the same time. The hardest part is the coordination, wherein we have to set appointments with the hotel or venue, church, transportation, flowers, food, etc. etc. . Hence, some couples choose to hire marriage planners or coordinators which is very helpful. Of course marriage coordinators will be an additional to our budget. For our part we did not hire coordinator instead we did all the plannings together. We did the plannings in less than a year and it was not easy for us because both of us were in Manila and our planned wedding was in Mindanao. But of course if there is a will there is a way.

I would like to share with you, our list when we were planning for our wedding.

  • How much budget we have; or at least how much we can have before the wedding?

1. Church/Solemnizing Officer

2. Venue

3. Food

4. Wedding dress/suit

5. Ring

Additional things that are also important

1. Photo and videos

2. Souvenir

3. Make-up

4. Transportation

5. Pre-nup/Post-nup

6. Buffer fund

7. Invitation cards

  • People that will be part in your wedding.

We also need to take into consideration the people who will be coming and participating in our wedding. For example from major sponsors, visitors, entourage that includes the veil and cord, candle, arrhae and ring, Bible, maid of honor, best man, etc.

Although we already have a budget in mind but we cannot be sure of the prices in our list unless we call or visit the place itself. For our part, we did online research first and made inquiries before coming to the place. Since our venue was in Mindanao we asked one of our relatives to do the site visit. For us it is very important to have a list, so we can trace the progress of our planning. Listing the needed things and materials will also help us to see if we are still within the budget limit. But of course we always need a buffer fund just in case there are some unavoidable circumstances.

Just a piece of advise if your are planning for your wedding already; do not cram. Better if you can ask the help of your trusted friends and relatives to help you by just asking some practical suggestions. Of course, at the end of the day, you will still be the one to decide- still your decision, however it is better to solicit opinion from others too. They might have better suggestions for food catering services, flower suppliers etc. But if you have the budget, then it is good to hire someone who can do the work for you.

Before I forget, please do some checking of things needed two days before the wedding day especially on the small details. Better if we can assign someone who will bring things just like the Bible, ring and some other stuff. Do not get stressed out during your big day.

If you have some questions please do not hesitate to contact me through my email address.

My advance congratulations to both of you.

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